Hair Systems Beginners: Challenges in First Days and How to Fix Them
- Written by Lordhair Team
- Jul 3, 2025
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- 12 min read
Listen to the full textGetting started with a hair system for men can be exciting as well as overwhelming. Challenges in the early stages can range from physical discomfort to emotional confusion that make you question your choice.
The good news? What you are experiencing is completely normal. Every experienced wearer of men's hair systems was where you are today. With the right information and a little patience, the frustrating early stages will soon turn into natural-looking results and increased confidence.
Based on real-life experiences of first-time wearers, this guide explores the most common issues you'll face in your first days with a hair system and offers realistic advice to overcome them. Whether you're feeling uncomfortable, experiencing installation problems, or nervous about appearance, we've included guidance to make your transition smooth and rewarding.
Why the First Days with Hair Systems Feel Overwhelming
When you first put on a hair system, you're not only adapting to a new look, you're accustomed to having a new routine and sensation. As one of the first-time users said, "There were A LOT of things that I learned. There were also A LOT of mistakes." The initial overwhelm isn't entirely a mental issue. It is caused by a combination of reasons:
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The Skill Gap
Hair systems require techniques like cutting bases, applying adhesives, and most beginners lack such experience.
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Physical Adjustment
Your scalp may initially treat the hair piece as a "foreign object", which causes itchiness. This adjustment period varies for everyone. Some may adapt to it in a few days, while others may take months to fully get used to it.
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Mental Noise
Societal stigma around hair loss solutions can amplify self-doubt, even when the results look undetectable.
Now that you understand why the beginning feels so challenging, then how should you tackle it? In the following section, we will break down the top challenges and practical solutions, so you can feel confident and comfortable in your new hair system.
Common Challenges for First-time Hair Systems Wearers
Based on feedback from Lordhair customers, we've identified the most common challenges first-time wearers face during the initial phase of their hair system journey.
DIY Installation Mistakes
The Problem
Attaching a hair piece by yourself can be difficult. Cutting the base incorrectly, aligning the hairline wrong, and excessive glue can all lead to frustration and make your hair toupee look unnatural. As one user said: "My first try looked like I let a toddler cut my hair!"
Solutions
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Follow a Step-by-Step Guide: The easiest way to avoid mistakes? Watch how experts do it first! Lordhair's YouTube channel has complete tutorial series made specifically for beginners. Subscribe to Lordhair YouTube for regular new tutorials that make wearing hair systems simple.
Attaching a Hybrid Base Hair System in 5 Minutes
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Leave Extra Material When Cutting: You can always trim more later. If you cut too much, you have no way to redo it. Remember to trim small amounts slowly while checking the fit.
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Practice Before Doing: Practice applying and removing the hair piece on a mannequin head before trying it yourself to build confidence.
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Consider Professional Help: If DIY sounds overwhelming, visit a stylist experienced in hair systems for your first installation. They can give you a perfect fit and teach you the process.
Maintenance Feels Time-Consuming
The Problem
Hair system maintenance is a common concern for new hair system wearers who are worried about everyday upkeep. Cleaning adhesives, washing a hair piece and reapplying it can feel like a part-time job at first. Wearers could spend a great deal of time on it and not get what they wished for.
Solutions
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Choose Low-Maintenance Hair Systems: Thin skin hair systems or hybrid hair systems combining thin skin with a lace front are more durable and easier to clean than full lace. They're ideal for beginners.
Best-selling Lordhair Thin Skin Hair Systems
Best-selling Lace Frontal Hair System
- Start with Tapes: Hair system adhesive tapes are easier to remove than glue. This makes them far more friendly while you are still in the learning process.
- Clean Glue Safely: When removing excess glue from your forehead, use a plastic card as a barrier so that you will not touch the hairline when wiping down your forehead.
- Stock Up on Supplies: Buy a maintenance kit with essentials (shampoo, conditioner, solvent, tape) to make care easier. This reduces your worry of product shortage.
For detailed guidance on hair system maintenance, check out this video tutorial.
How to Clean and Reattach Your Hair System
Intense Itching and Discomfort
The Problem
Itching is a big issue for many hair system beginners in the first couple of days. Your scalp is not used to having something attached to it all day. Some hair toupees with poor breathability would also lock in sweat and breed bacteria, which would itch and irritate the scalp easily.
Solutions
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Choose High-Quality Hair Systems
Higher-grade materials deliver superior comfort for daily wear and can significantly reduce irritation and itchiness in the early stage of usage.
Lordhair's antibacterial hair system ZyroSen is specially designed for people who prioritize comfort. Certified by SGS, FDA and CE, ZyroSen eliminates 99.9% of scalp bacteria to maintain freshness and comfort throughout the day.
ZyroSen Antibacterial Hair System Hot Picks
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Prepare Your Scalp: Clean your scalp thoroughly before applying the hair toupee to remove oils and reduce irritation.
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Gentle Care Routine: Clean your hair piece thoroughly every 2-3 weeks with a mild shampoo to ensure a clean scalp and reduce irritation. Rinse your toupee hair with water after intense sweating or workouts.
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Stick It Out: It may take a few weeks or even months for your head to fully adapt to the hair system, so don't give up too early. Many beginners report significant itchiness relief within the first 7-10 days. However, if itching persists and causes visible scalp issues, remove the hair toupee immediately and consult a doctor if symptoms continue.
Worrying About Detection
The Problem
One of the beginners' common fears is whether people will notice their hair system. The wearer may always be wondering "Can people tell I'm wearing a hair system?" But the truth is always that outsiders have no clue. Only close contacts may notice because they are familiar with your original look.
Solutions
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Choose a Natural-Looking System: Opt for hair systems with a French lace front. Its natural hairline will match your scalp nicely.
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Honest with Close Contacts: Be honest with close friends and family. You can say, for example, "I'm trying a new look to feel my best!" Most people will be curious or supportive rather than judgmental.
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Get Professional Services: Visit a hair salon for an undetectable look. A hairstylist can help you blend your hair piece with your natural hair perfectly.
Emotional Doubts and Feeling Like a "Fraud"
The Problem
The inner battle of a hair system beginner can be intense. That voice in your head says "This isn't really you", despite the fact that you love how it looks. Such doubts usually have their roots in either societal stigma or fear that wearing a hair system is "cheating".
Solutions
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Reframe Your Mindset: A hair system is a tool for self-expression, just the same as glasses or clothing for your body. It's a matter of feeling your best, not hiding who you are. Confidence comes from owning your choices, not where your hair comes from.
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Commit to a Trial Period: Set a goal to wear a hair piece for 30–60 days to let your brain get used to it. Many users report forgetting the toupee hair is on their head after a few weeks.
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Focus on the Payoff: Remember your handsome face in the mirror or shine in people's eyes when you speak to them. Remind yourself of such confidence boosters to get over early doubts. Write down your experience if you want to keep track of how your confidence is growing. It will keep you going.
Lordhair Hair System Before and After
Pro Tips to Skip the Beginner Struggles
Starting with men's hair systems doesn't have to be difficult. While every new wearer faces some challenges, these professional tips will help you:
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Start with a Beginner-Friendly Hair System
Use a thin skin hair system or hybrid hair system combining thin skin and lace front. These are easier to wear and maintain than using a full lace hair system, which will save you time and frustration.
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Use Adhesive Tapes Instead of Glue
Compared to glue, hair system adhesive tapes are easier to use, remove, and clean for beginners, so your initial days will be less stressful.
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Invest in a Maintenance Kit
Purchase a starter kit containing gentle solvent, shampoo, conditioner, and wide tooth comb prior to application. Preparing in advance reduces last-minute stress and promotes better maintenance.
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Join a Support Community
Become a member of forum boards to ask questions and exchange experiences. Interaction with other people can ease doubts such as being "fraudulent" and boost your confidence.
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Get a Professional Cut-In
Hair system sellers like Lordhair offer a pre-cutting service, allowing you to wear your hair system as soon as you receive it. However, you may still need to visit a local salon for application, which assures a natural look and reduces your worries about detection.
How to find "a hair system salon near me"?
Many customers ask us if Lordhair has a local salon where they can have their hair piece attached, cut, and maintained without any hassle. In order to meet their needs, we have partnered with hair system salons around the globe. Through our partnership with these salons, Lordhair users are able to enjoy a discount on their service.
Here's a quick link to some hair system salons that partner with Lordhair. For a full list of salon partners, please contact Lordhair customer service.
The Reward: A Confidence Boost Worth the Effort
In spite of the challenges, the reward of a hair system is undeniable. As noted by one user, "When I walk out in public, I have this new found confidence." Clothing looks better, you look younger, and others' responses can change the way you approach the world. All these are sufficient reasons to persevere through the first days' struggles.
To get there, take some time to get used to your hair system. One day, you will begin to forget that the system is on your head. With practice, you will be more skilled in this routine and the confidence that it brings will be greater than the hassle of learning it.
Lordhair: A Smoother Start to Your Hair Systems Experience
Lordhair provides products and services that give you a smoother start and secure you throughout your hair system journey.
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Beginner-Friendly Hair Systems
We stock a wide range of beginner-friendly hair systems that accommodate customers' comfort, naturalness or lifestyle requirements. We also provide starter packs where you can acquire all you need to get started.
Lordhair Starter Packs
ZyroSen SuperSkin-V Starter Pack
Upgraded Antimicrobial ZyroSen Hair System Essentials for New Users
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ZyroSen Neo Starter Pack
Upgraded Antimicrobial ZyroSen Hairpiece Essentials for New Users - Quick Clip-on, Instant Fit
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Hair Cutting Services
We offer hair cutting services before shipment that can fit your personal hairstyle needs. The hair piece is ready to attach as soon as it arrives.
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Hair System Maintenance Services
We offer professional hair system maintenance services with adhesive removal, deep base cleansing, and frizz-repair hydration, to reduce your inconvenience when starting to use hair systems.
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FREE Returns on Your First Order
If you're concerned that the hair piece you purchase might not fit, Lordhair provides free returns on your first order. Should your first hair system from us not fit properly, you can easily apply for a free return. We will arrange convenient doorstep pickup, allowing you to return the hair piece without any fees.
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1-on-1 Expert Advice Throughout the Process
Our experts provide personalized assistance at each stage of your purchase. From selecting the right hairpiece to post-purchase maintenance, we're here to ensure you receive the best service.
Whatever questions you may have about hair systems, contact us for a free consultation.
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